Monday, April 28, 2014

A Sink is a Metaphor for My Life

                                                                                             
Sometimes, things happen in my life which seem to be a microcosm of the bigger picture.  Today, it’s my kitchen sink.  A sink is a basic house fixture.  Water, dishes, whatnot.  My sink is a big, fat, piece of shit composed of the same, rusted, caked parts from when the home was built in 1960-something.  It fucking reeks.  Seriously.  It smells like rancid food, even when I dump half a gallon of bleach down the drain. 
A few months ago, the garbage disposal started leaking.  Drip, drip, drip.  Not a torrent of water, which would need require emergency plumbing, but a small, annoying, stinky drip.  I found it when I when looking for a screwdriver in the toolbox which is stored under the sink.  All of the tools were literally floating in a primordial, stanky soup of partially disposed food and run-off water from the sink.  Sitting and festering under the sink, behind the cupboard.  No one would notice it, unless they actually opened the cupboard for cleaning supplies and poked around – something literally no one else in my house would EVER do. 

Finding that fucking mess REALLY pissed me off.  I tried to fix the problem, but it requires a plumber.  Some things are better done by a person who does that thing for a living.  I learned how to change out an electrical outlet recently (from an electrician, by the way), but I don’t delude myself into thinking I can rewire a home.  And one home skill does not mean I can fix fundamental problems.  (Nor do I want to, if I’m being honest.)  Who is delusional?  My roommate/still-husband.  He invites his brother over to do the job (two months later). 

Don’t get me wrong; his brother is a REALLY good guy, but he is not a plumber.  He’s a bartender.  And now, not only does the disposal still leak like a sieve, the sink doesn’t even turn on.  No water at all.  Nothing.  Nada.  I washed my dinner dishes in the bathtub tonight. 

Is that funny?  Sort of.  In the I-want-to-fucking-rip-my-husband’s-face-off sort of way. 

HIRE A MOTHERFUCKING PLUMBER.

His grandmother just died, and she left us some money.  I gave my husband my portion of the money to do some home improvements.   I asked for a new garbage disposal and a new door.  I got the door, but instead of new disposal, I got a new faucet (…inexplicable, except that he is under the impression that surfaces are more important than depth…).  But no water comes out of it.  It’s barren.  It’s new and shiny, but it’s absolutely worthless, because the whole point of a faucet is for water to come out of it. 


I’m not trying to be bitter, but this absurdist version of my life has got to be some cosmic joke. 

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