Douchebaggery

I had a great night with my extended family tonight, and then my husband showed up.  I didn't talk to him, but he wanted a ride home, so we all came home together. 
As soon as I got home, my daughter pointed out that her dad wasn't happy about something.  I didn't even know what it was.  Apparently I said something which made him mad, so she got upset, so we talked about it.
Talking turned into arguing, which was my daughter and I arguing about her dad's feelings about ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!  He was mad about nothing, so I ended up arguing with my child about ... him.  About nothing. 
He is toxic.  
He said I don't even know her. 
He said that about a child with whom he spends about an hour a week, but I'm the one who doesn't know her.
It's not that I don't know her, it's that she is just like him.  Feeling words are "bad", so expressing them is " bad". 
I fucking hate him with every fiber of my being.